I think its because I posted it right before you responded! So thank you for your speedy response! Also - this feels really bang on, I very much appreciate your direct answer. I definitely am a people pleaser and put myself second to everyone, and readint what you just wrote hit home - not with her lately, but with many other people in my life who i see regularly - maybe she was just the first one I did it with, so the dream was about the catalyst relationship of me doing that. This is really helpful Shell, thank you! <3