I think probably you have the wrong people around you if they don't like you when you're sober!!! I'm sure you're amazing sober <3 I quit earlier than I planned because I felt some addiction signs coming up - I am really happy to have stopped, but having cravings for sure. I didn't drink at all and didn't want to when I wasn't in this relationship - so thats a pretty big red flag for me! Thanks for your comment! <3