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If You’re Torn On Whether Or Not To Stay In Your Relationship, Here’s What To Do
This simple (but not easy) solution will help you come to a conclusion, once and for all.
I know what it feels like to be in a relationship and question it every damn day. I know what it's like to feel like one moment you absolutely have to leave, and the next moment you can see yourself growing old together — and couldn't imagine it any other way.
Legit, lost without them one moment and wanting them to disappear the next.
I know what that chaos feels like! I know how exhausting it is. I know how lost it can make you feel. I know how crazy it can make you feel.
What I’ve come to realize is that there is truly only one solution to get yourself to finally come to a conclusion on what to do about it. It starts with you, focusing on you, making changes for yourself — and truly committing to that.
You cannot change someone else — period. You can try to help, and you can support their own growth but you can’t make the changes for them — you’ve heard this before, and it's true — so stop holding on to hope that you can change them, you cant!
So, like I said — START WITH YOU!
