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Should We Break Up? Here are 3 Tips to Help You Decide
It seems like it's breakup season amongst all my friends, so it feels like a fitting time to write this.
Everyone seems to have an opinion on relationships….
Relationships are hard, everyone fights — that's normal!
Relationships shouldn’t be difficult. You shouldn’t be fighting that often.
They are a narcissist, you need to get out immediately.
They have been through a lot of trauma in their life — that’s why they are acting this way. They are insecure, maybe you can help them.
How do you know if you should stay or leave?
How do you know if the person you’re with is the right partner?
I’ve given this a lot of thought and done some heavy research over the years. I’ve read books, gotten years of therapy, meditated, done workshops, journaled, talked to friends, read articles, listened to podcasts — you name it — I’ve done it!
I’ve used myself as a case study as well. I tried all the different suggestions, tips and tricks that I learned about in my own relationships and I’ve hashed it down to a few things to consider when deciding whether or not to stay with your partner.
