Thank you for the response! I think people are getting the wrong ideal because I am definitely not advising to turn a cheek - I'm advising to set boundaries and protect yourself and not become a victim. This is only in a relationship that you can't leave, or choose not to leave. If you want to leave and can leave - then I think thats best when dealing wish narcissists. However, I also thing its a really great opportunity to become stronger, more resilient and learn how to CHOOSE to not be a victim. It's very easy to fall into being a victim & feel powerless. I want people to feel empowered, and like they have their own choices - and have autonomy. Thats where the real message lies here! And yes - therapy has been a godsend in helping me through this journey.