Thank you for your response. And I know, it's heartbreaking. Like I said, my brother was one of those people and I have many male friends in the same boat. I've also witnessed women still be this way in their 20s & 30s. I wish we could make a public service announcement to the world to help people understand...but even that likely wouldnt change things. Just remember, hurt people, hurt people. So the gal who bullied you, likely had her own BS going on that she projected on to you. I hope you can find the respect for yourself that you deserve & the right woman will see that in you. This world is annoying as all hell sometimes. Thanks again for the response!