Thank you for your response! Murderous is the perfect word to describe it. Sounds like you have an amazing and supportive husband - my partner tends to get annoyed when I ask him to please chew with his mouth closed - however, I tend to apologize incessantly since its nothing he's doing wrong, it's my issue! I thing gracefully moving away from sounds will be the best option for me as well. Nice to hear I'm not alone with this, but I'm sorry you also have had this issue! <3