Thank you for your response, but I disagree! I didn’t go into all the details of my research and all the experiences I’ve had with people who struggle with narcissism — because that would be a novel! But — I do appreciate your view, and at the same time I’m willing to lean more towards a balanced approach where maybe it's not always the narcissists' fault — and we can find solutions to help rather than alienate. I’m just seeing that the more people hate on, and alienate narcissists — the more people who write about their victim stories, the worse its getting. The more divide. I think there’s a better solution — and I'm suggesting compassion and strong boundaries — and helping them be more self-aware. Maybe I didn’t get that across — and perhaps I should have included more details about my life of being a “victim” of many narcissists — trust me, I don’t lack experience in this category! haha thank you though — I expected these comments!