Thanks for the response Kirsten! I think it’s a human issue, rather than a woman's issue. Have you seen the gun violence and suicide rates? Sure, we as women can be pissed off about needing to help, but without that — the violence will only get worse. It’s a matter of people working together, it’s a matter of no longer causing this divide to get worse and worse. YES, men need to take responsibility and put in the hard work to be better, but a little compassion goes a long way and I don’t see that as a detractor to us women, it actually feels better to be compassionate than it does to be angry. I hear the anger in your message and I totally recognize, that — however I do feel that if we just are like “whatever this is a you problem” it's just going to flip the other way and be an issue. We need to come together in all departments right now!!! Not just genders, but in other ways too — I’m sure you can see that. I’m not saying you have to be friends with assholes, just understand where they are coming from — it’s not easy and I’m hopeful that men can figure out how to work through their emotions so we can all continue to grow. Maybe you don’t have an older brother like I do with the same circumstances as mine — that helped me be more compassionate towards men. WE ARE ALL DOING OUR BEST WITH THE CARDS WE HAVE BEEN GIVEN!