What to do if your wife won’t have sex with you anymore

Assuming you want to have sex with her, of course

I have a lot of male friends — and many of them have been sexually frustrated in their relationships and came to me to vent. Thankfully, my friends are all really honest with me, so when I ask them about how they initiate sex — they tell me straight up (which is sometimes pretty hilarious that they think it will work).

I’m starting to see some pretty huge correlations amongst them and the tips that I’ve been giving have been working so I figure, why not share them here, with all of you, so you can have more SEX!

Disclaimer: In this article, I’m writing heteronormatively and focussing on an article about women who are the ones who aren't into sex, because well — I’m a woman. I want to also write one about men who won’t have sex as well so stay tuned for that — I think much of this applies to men too.

The first thing you must do if you’re sexually frustrated is to honestly ask yourself what your partner was like at the beginning of your relationship. If they have always been a not very sexual person with you — then you’re not going to create a sex fiend of them now — you just aren't (sorry).

This is uncommon though, usually, it started out sexual and then started to dwindle. Also — are you matched well sexually? Some people want sex multiple times a day and some people are totally happy with intimacy a couple of times a year or not at…