You're the best, truly! I disappeared for a bit there, but I think I'm going to take to the page now - as unhinged as it might get at moments! Thank you so much. I LOVE that book but haven't read it for years - I think it's time for a refresher. It's interesting how you can built yourself up so well, and then a relationship can humble you right back down. Time to do the work. Life can be so much like a video game, its wild. Sending you gratitude!